the wired

A place for folks to make friends, talk about their hobbies, and explore themselves along the axes of sexuality and kink.

We believe any fantasy is fine to have as long as your values and deeds remain ethical.

No ID verification required; we go by the honor system!

Archetypes

• Autistic, plural, chronically ill, and/or LGBTQ+ identifying people
• Allies with demonstrable understanding of trans perspective
• Transhumanists who enjoy computer science and anime
• Internet-obsessed hard chatters who want to read all the posts

Qualities & Beliefs

• High openness and agreeableness
• Capability and prioritization of compassion & conscientiousness
• Able to self-moderate to some extent and do conflict de-escalation
• High value placed on freedom of expression and bodily autonomy
• Introspective, with much thought put to cross-domain ethics

• ~10 years or more experience with: community building, practicing ethical kink, and polamory
• Understanding, reasonable moderation style
• Open to having our decisions questioned and challenged
• Formally trained in matters of kink safety through local community